What? Me! How could he just not be that into me? I wasn’t offended when she said it though. I suppose as an outsider to the situation it could most certainly seem that way. And if I’m the one who is delusional then… How stupid am I?
Why do we [women] do this to ourselves? Is it wrong to have such confidence in the fact that 2 adults could very well be “into each other” and yet still be so independent and such respectors of each others time and space? I understand that such a paradigm is in the minority as it relates to millennial couples. Has the core of honesty, respect and fidelity eroded such that even the mere thought seems foreign to most?
I will say that I have had my doubts but only after “listening” to others and feeling influenced by their reality. I’m ok with it either way. I am often described as a difficult and complicated woman. I self describe as direct and to-the-point in most any case. He self describes as “a simple man”. I don’t think I would be the only one to say that simple is not vague (which he can be at times). I often wonder if there are so many things that are “simple” to most and “oblivious” to me… What cloud am I floating around on? It can’t be me.
Needless to say… I enjoy his compliments, conversation and company in general. We complement each other and I am satisfied with that… for now. I will keep you posted.
A life un-learned is a life un-lived.